The high price of “someday”

There is a very common narrative that high-achievers tend to buy into. It is the idea of the deferred life.

We work relentlessly in our thirties, forties, and fifties, pouring all of our surplus time and energy into building our careers and our portfolios. We tell ourselves that we are making sacrifices now so that we can finally relax, travel, and enjoy our lives “someday” when we cross a specific financial finish line.

But this mindset contains a hidden, incredibly dangerous flaw. It assumes that when “someday” finally arrives, we will still have the physical capacity to enjoy it.

When we plan for the future, we can easily obsess over our financial capital. We track the compound interest, we monitor the yields, and we ensure the portfolio is perfectly balanced. But we risk ignoring our physical capital.

Your physical capital can be described as your health, your motility, and your energy levels. And unlike a well-managed investment portfolio, your physical capital does not compound over time; it naturally depreciates.

It is easy to dream about spending your retirement tackling multi-day hiking trails, camping out under the stars, or finally having the time to master those mountain bike routes. But if you spend three decades sitting behind a desk, sacrificing your sleep, and ignoring your health in the pursuit of a larger bank balance, those dreams might remain entirely out of reach.

A fully funded pension cannot buy back worn-out knees or a depleted cardiovascular system.

In financial planning, we often talk about the three distinct phases of later life:

  1. The Go-Go Years: The early years of retirement when you have both the time and the physical health to travel, explore, and engage in high-energy activities.
  1. The Slow-Go Years: The phase where you are still healthy, but naturally begin to slow down. The long-haul flights and strenuous hikes are replaced by closer, gentler pursuits.
  1. The No-Go Years: The later years where health issues and limited mobility dictate your lifestyle, and your world naturally becomes much smaller.

The tragedy of the deferred life is that many people run the risk of delayng their biggest, most physically demanding dreams until they hit their mid-sixties, only to discover that their “Go-Go” years may already be behind them.

A truly successful financial plan does not just prepare you for the future; it gives you permission to live today.

It is about finding the delicate balance between saving for tomorrow and experiencing the present. If your financial plan is so rigid that it prevents you from taking a long weekend to recharge, investing in your physical health, or enjoying an active holiday while your body is at its peak, it could be time to rewrite the plan.

Do not arrive at your financial finish line with a full bank account and an empty tank. Treat your physical health with the same strategic reverence you give your investment portfolio, because your health is, and always will be, your primary wealth.